Supporting Someone Experiencing Delusions

Learn what delusions are, why they happen, and how you can respond with compassion and care.

What are delusions?

Delusions are false fixed beliefs that feel very real to the person experiencing them but are out of touch with reality. They do not change even when new facts or ideas are presented to them. Delusions are a possible symptom of psychosis and schizophrenia but can also occur in other mental illnesses such as bipolar disorder or major depressive disorder with psychotic features. These experiences can be confusing or upsetting for both the individuals and their families.   

Understanding what’s happening – and responding with compassion – can make a real difference.  

 

Understanding delusions

Delusions are considered one of the positive psychotic symptoms of psychosis. In this context, “positive” doesn’t mean good; it refers to experiences or behaviors that are added to a person’s usual way of thinking or perceiving.  

The person experiencing delusions may: 

  • Express grandiose beliefs, such as feeling unusually powerful or important 
  • Have problems concentrating, communicating, or thinking clearly 
  • Feel like their thoughts are blocked  
  • Believe that their body is diseased, distorted, or missing 
  • Experience persecutory (paranoid) thinking, such as thinking others are trying to harm them or that messages are being sent through the TV or phone 

Delusions can last for short or long periods of time and may vary in intensity. Stress and anxiety often make symptoms worse. Remember, these are symptoms of the illness, not a choice or a reflection of someone’s character. Approaching the person with calmness, empathy, and consistency helps create safety and trust, which are essential for recovery.  

 

What causes delusions?

The exact cause isn’t fully understood, but research suggests a complex combination of biological, genetic, psychological, and environmental factors may increase risk. Recent research has also linked cannabis use to a higher likelihood of psychotic symptoms.  

 

Treatment options

Delusions are treatable, and recovery is possible. Treating delusions usually involves a combination of strategies with the goal of reducing delusional beliefs and improving their quality of life and coping skills. 

Treatments often include: 

  • Medications (such as antipsychotics) 
  • Therapies such as Cognitive Behavioral Therapy for Psychosis) and counselling support for both the person and their family 
  • Education 
  • Stress management  
  • Hospitalization or short-term inpatient care (if necessary) 

Treatment works best when paired with understanding, care, education, support and connection; people can manage symptoms and build a meaningful life. 

 

How to offer support

Supporting a loved one who is experiencing delusions can be challenging, but your kindness and encouragement can make a big difference. Focus on connection, understanding, and safety rather than challenging what they believe.  

Here are some things to remember as you help them. 

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  • Learn about mental illnesses, treatment options, and the role of medications and other therapies.

  • Speak calmly, one at a time, and use short sentences allowing time for them to respond.

  • Try to understand what the experience feels like for them. You might say: ‘It must feel very frightening to think there is a conspiracy against you.’

  • Focus on listening, as trying to debate a delusion may lead to more distress, counter arguments, or including you in the delusion.

  • Delusions can sometimes involve suspicion or blame. Remind yourself, this is part of their illness, not about you. 

  • Be aware of your own feelings when caring for someone with delusions. When you look after your own health and wellbeing, you’re better able to support your loved one and the rest of your family. 

  • BCSS programs and regional educators are here to help. Peer and professional support can make a big difference.

    BCSS offers programs like Family support groups (FSG)Strengthening Families Together (SFT), and our regional educators to help families navigate these challenges and connect you with others.

When to seek immediate help

 

If your loved one feels severe distress, confusion, unsafe, threatened, unable to care for basic needs, or acts in a way that might cause harm to themselves or others, get help right away. Learn more about emergency services here

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    Call 9-1-1in an immediate emergency.

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    The 310 – Mental Health support line is available 24 hours per day across BC: Call 310-6789 (no area code needed) toll-free anywhere in BC to access emotional support, information and resources specific to mental health and substance use issues.

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